Parenting challenges and rewards

Parenting is the most challenging, difficult, and rewarding activity in life with major highs and lows, and parents should appreciate the short time they...

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Parents of young children.

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One side

“Parenting is the most challenging, difficult, and rewarding activity in life with major highs and lows, and parents should appreciate the short time they have with young children.”

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology · TikTok

The other

“Spoiling children by doing too many things for them removes their opportunity to develop competence and abdicates their own thinking, leading others to think for them.”

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology · TikTok

In their own words

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a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology recommend
“Parenting is the most challenging, difficult, and rewarding activity in life with major highs and lows, and parents should appreciate the short time they have with young children.”

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology · TikTok

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology recommend
“Effective discipline requires consistent rules applied with minimal force and plenty of patience, and parents should discuss and agree on disciplinary strategies together.”

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology · TikTok

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology against
“Spoiling children by doing too many things for them removes their opportunity to develop competence and abdicates their own thinking, leading others to think for them.”

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology · TikTok

a media host and psychologist with a lapsed clinical license against
“Children learn to lie from their parents, often by age three, so parents must model truthfulness to foster honesty in children.”

a media host and psychologist with a lapsed clinical license · source video

a media host and psychologist with a lapsed clinical license recommend
“Stealing and lying in children often reflect family dynamics and low self-esteem, so family counseling is recommended to address underlying issues.”

a media host and psychologist with a lapsed clinical license · source video

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology recommend
“Parents should actively engage with their teenagers to prevent them from drifting into negative peer groups and to address issues like bullying early before they escalate.”

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology · source video

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology against
“Spoiling a child by doing too many things for them takes away their opportunity to develop competence and leads to abdication of thought where others think for them.”

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology · source video

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology against
“Spoiling a child by doing too many things for them takes away their opportunity to develop their own competence.”

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology · source video

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Journaling and self-authoring

If you have a good idea, write it down because it is a gift that could change your whole life and forgetting it could prevent progress.

Strong consensus

“If you have a good idea, write it down because it is a gift that could change your whole life and forgetting it could prevent progress.”

a clinical psychologist and Professor Emeritus of psychology · TikTok

Metabolic psychiatry and brain energy theory

Mental illnesses are symptoms of metabolic dysfunction affecting the whole body and brain, not just isolated brain problems.

Strong consensus

“Mental illnesses are symptoms of metabolic dysfunction affecting the whole body and brain, not just isolated brain problems.”

a Harvard Medical School psychiatrist specializing in metabolic psychiatry · Instagram

EMDR and trauma processing

He discusses new ways to treat anxiety, OCD, and PTSD by focusing on brain metabolic health rather than only symptoms.

Strong consensus

“He discusses new ways to treat anxiety, OCD, and PTSD by focusing on brain metabolic health rather than only symptoms.”

a Harvard Medical School psychiatrist specializing in metabolic psychiatry · Instagram